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This Is for All the Lonely People

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“This is for all the lonely people,
Thinking that life has passed them by.
Don’t give up until you drink from the silver cup
And never take you down
Or never give you up.
You never know until you try.”

- America, This is for All the Lonely People

Every year I see people  all over dA saying how they’re “FOREVER ALONE” and I decided this year to actually take the time to make a Valentine’s picture [my first in a few years now], just with those people in mind. As the band America said, ‘this is for all the lonely people, thinking that love has left them dry’.

Now, you're probably sitting there saying 'you don't understand!'. Well, I do.
I’m Asexual, so it’s especially tough for me to meet people I actually want to start a relationship with. Or, at least, people who will invest the time it takes to get to know me [I’m a ridiculously complex person xD]. I haven't dated anyone offline since I was in middle school, because I prefer getting to know people online first [you get to know people a lot better that way, since you actually have to focus on conversation]. My last online relationship was a handful of years ago, and since then I've met other people, but nothing has become of it. So I get where you're coming from, trust me.

But, the truth is, being alone isn't something to fret over. There are many people out there with the capacity to love you - you just need to keep searching for them. Keep at it, because you WILL find them; it might just take some time. But the downtime in between relationships isn't a bad thing - it's time to reflect, take stock of the good things in life and figure out what it is that you need in a partner.

Besides, you’re never truly alone. Whether you believe in the metaphysical or not, the universe is alive all around you, with the constant bustle of life in motion. There are friends, and family, and pets, and the people in the world like me who are thinking about you right now. Some people may think it's weird to care about strangers with whom you have no affiliation, but I care deeply about the human race as a whole, and I like to look after everyone, whether I know them personally or not.

Happy Valentines Day, singles!
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BayEagle2007's avatar
:+fav:'ed and sent several. Thanks for thinking about the people who don't have people to spend this day with.